Sunday, November 13, 2005

Boring story

How abt a story of me when I was young?

When I was abt 16yrs old, I alway hangout with my cousin who is a malaysian.
Reason why she's a malaysian while I'm a singaporean is because my auntie married to a malaysia husband.

Basically every weekend I would follow my cousin back home which is Johor Bahru and Monday I would wake up very early to go school from Johor Bahru. Taking a 45mins bus to malaysia custom, cross it, walk to singapore custom, take mrt all the way to my school,which is extreme west of singapore.

I like malaysia alot.
Maybe bcoz of the houses down there. Down to earth lifestyle. Really living on the ground.
Not like my own house, 7th storey..open my door and only to see my neighbour's door and staircase. No money for mansion u c..
Down there,I open the door, I saw trees, chickens running, dogs playing with each other.
Nature environment with no busy roads like singapore.

Saturday afternoon, we would set off to my cousin's house.
Had our lunch and a nap in the noon.
Evening time we would go to church and after dat was happy moments for me.
Meet up with friends to chit chat at those mama-tan.
Having my favourite teh-o ice limau, and roti-tissue.

And well, my 1st boyfriend was one of the friends in my cousin's group.
He's 2yrs older than me.
A skinny not so tall guy with a cheeky looks.
Joker type..alway full of craps.

He's a very close friend of my cousin.
He often called her up to chat on the phone..
Naturally, I thought he was going after her.
Slowly, I realised sometimes my cousin chatted with him, she would look at me and smile.
This is weird, I tot to myself.
Once, we were on our bed and she asked me,"how you find han?"
"huh?" why suddenly asked me abt han?
I tot my cousin was weird. Han is her friend,she should know better..why ask me?
So I just replied,"he ah? nice chap.."
Den my cousin just smiled at me and went to bed.
From there onwards, the call from him would alway passed to me when my cousin finished talking with him..

One day, han came to my cousin's house with his friend cum colleague.
Purpose of coming was to bring us out but my auntie didn't allow us to.
so we chatted at the gate instead..happily until it was around 12plus den they left.
His friend was shy. He was my age.
Cute quite small eye guy. That was the impression he left in my heart.

The following day, his friend came to look for me himself and brought me for a ride with his bike. 1st time bike ride experience. Fun..
I love bikes by the way..
Although my another cousin alway say I'm silly..She keep insisting car is better. But who cares..
Its my liking..
Nice night spent with him chatting and joking around.
Who knows it ended up kinda of stupid.

Han found out and they had a fight at their workplace regarding this.
Han was angry he came and look for me.
His friend was puzzled. Why couldn't he look for me was in his mind.
He questioned Han.
Han said,"bcoz I want to woo her."
His friend got the whole picture but he replied,"I didn't know dat but I don't care coz I want to woo her too!See who get her 1st."
Han was mad upon listening this and he punched him...and fight!
Kinda of silly when I think back now.

Actually, I was shocked to hear this news from my cousin.
She said,"wow, you're powerful. 2 guys fight bcoz of u."
I was innocent.
I didn't know he like me.
I didn't know his friend like me.
I didn't know anything.

The day they fought, both of 'em came to look for me one followed another half an hour later.
Dat chan mian was tough for me as I was only 16 dat time.
His friend came 1st.
Followed by Han.
Han stared at him.
No one talked.
It was so silent..until my cousin dragged han one side..
While they were away, his friend invited me for a spin..
I didn't know what to do and agreed..just want to leave dat chan mian.

Still rem han's look when he saw me leaving on his friend's bike.
Dat shock look.

Actually I forgot how we ended up together.
I just rem our daily routine when we were together.
On the phone monday to friday.
Talking abt the same things everyday.
Meet up only on sat n sun when I go over.
Report to me wherever he go..me finding him a pain in the neck dat time.
Young..dunno wat is love I guess.

Our relationship lasts for half a year only and I suggested breakup.
It was too bored to talk on the phone and chatted abt the same things everyday
and get to meet on weekend only..
Ya..again..young..dunno wat is love..
Marriage couples also do the same things everyday..
Cute he was..
went my cousin's house to look for me 2yrs later..
Guess he just forgot I live in singapore..

3 comments:

Richard said...

I don't think it was a boring story. It is a story from your life and is something I think you need to treasure.

Maybe things didn't work out. Maybe things could have been different, but ... life is the way it is and we learn by living it.

Thank you for sharing this story.

dandan...™ said...

=)
Welcome to read my story too..

dandan...™ said...

Hope no one got mistaken and tot I'm a babe as I recieved email regarding this.
well, I'm nt pretty non have a good figure.
Dat happened to me so young..
Just crush I guess..
*Learn wat crush mean recently.(better understanding of it I should say.)