Be strong, gal.

One of my close friend sms-ed me early in the morning about 3am plus.. I managed to see her sms when I woke up about 7am plus.

She asked me this, “How you manage to forget that boyfriend of yours when u guys already plan to get marry?” ...

Upon reading this, I know something must have happened to her. I immediately replied her sms asking her what happened. Well, like what I expected, they broke off. Reason; The boyfriend find my friend very fearful. He said he was afraid of every sentence he said would make her angry. Everything he did seem wrong.

My friend asked me this, “Will fear really make a person don’t love anymore?”
Yes was my answer.

Just like me, I cried almost everyday, every night when I just broke off with my boyfriend that time. But I started to realize I need “freedom” more. Its not because I don’t love him, but happiness is not there being with him. There’s no point dragging on. Incompatible is the word to use. I do believe, no matter how much you love someone, incompatible will still be the cause of a broken relationship. Now, we are still friends. Isn’t that a blessing?

I tried to comfort her. But I know, no matter how much I say, she won’t understand. She won’t just get over it by a few words of mine.
I know she needs time. Time will heal everything. This is my experience.

She said, “He told me before I’m the woman he love most. Why now he wanted to leave me?”
I guess all women will ponder on what our boyfriends told us during relationship and its hurtful when its turn out to be not.
They didn’t keep to their words? Some, yes, they did not. Some, they feel that loving someone doesn’t need to be together. Of course, there’s reason behind when they decided on this.

Sometimes love is like this. Its will not turn out the way you want to be.

Just like her, she planned to spend her life with him, yet he gave up on her.

Another friend of mine, love her boyfriend a lot, the boyfriend decide on a break off and had a new girlfriend shortly after her.
She cried. She recovered.
Now she can tell me this past of her laughing away.
“Time” is so amazing “medicine” that I must agreed.

Like me, once I took 2 years to forget someone.
But now, I can talk to him just like a normal friend.

I'm not strong, but I grow from experience. I let myself feel sad for a day and I would tell myself I must spend my next day happily. This is how I handle my bad mood day.

Now, I really wish she can understand and get over him soon. I want her to be the cheerful gal once again..

Be strong gal..