Infatuated dandan

Brother's Wedding : 14th January 2011

2011-02-11T21:01:00.004+08:00

Grace's Bday @ Hoshi..

2010-08-25T21:09:00.000+08:00

Fabian Wine

2010-08-03T21:15:00.000+08:00

Took by Jacelyn....
She love this wine!!
And I love my Fabian!

A great Nite at Shanghai Dolly, Celebrating Chris's Bday

2010-06-08T16:49:00.005+08:00

office polities

2010-02-02T13:05:00.000+08:00

Don't understand why so people just simply like to spread news that is not confirmed. Maybe it is my own fault. I should not go and tell her about it. If I don't tell her, she won't go and tell another her, den dat another her won't have the chance to go and spread around and let so many people know about it.

To spread a not confirm news is really a sin!

I guess u should stop doing it!

Please stop!

I hate it la!

I don't like office polities!

SHIT!

Dream House~

2010-01-12T15:53:00.001+08:00

Looking forward to move to a bigger, dream house sweet house within.............2 years time?

If everything goes smoothly...

Pray hard for that...

Oldies memory

2009-12-30T13:10:00.002+08:00

Recently, I've been thinking about lotsa of things... really alot..
Be it family, future, kid, career and even some oldies memory set me pondering alot.

And guess what, when I started to think of one, this link me thinking of another one..
ya. weird me.
But somehow or rather, both of them appear in my mind again.
Once again, they're being dig out.

No, I should say, one is always remember deep in my heart, "Zx" is being dig out for no reason as I don't even know where is he now, what he is doing.. how is he coping with his life..
But all these are out of concern.. afterall, once we spent happy moment together before, although only as 'friends'..

To think back, is it a regret that we didn't develop further...or should I feel happy we din..
I'm not saying he's a bad man, but neither is he a good man.
He treated one of my friend very badly. Consider a Jerk, I guess. I din really interview her on that issue. Don't want to bring those bad memory to her again. But perhaps, deep inside her heart, she does misses him.

As to compare and as a self-comfort, at least he treated me very well, really very nice to me in the past.
To my buddy, she will said,"think of all these for what? You got nothing better to do ar?". Yes, she is Leng Bing Bing!

Hmm...why am I so into the past now.. thanks to dat special him lor..
Set me pondering about my past and trying to make a conclusion out of my life.
Nothing much for me to emo about but the .... it's too late 'past'.

Maybe if I grow old until my hair turn white, I will still think of the happy moment with the special him.
He just somehow or rather, live in my heart. No one can replace him and I don't intend to let anyone replace him.
Or I should just erase him off as he said alot of girls can't forget him too. I don't want to be one of those girls.

Life goes on without any changes. Grateful that things are in order now and the emo stuff will be another memory add-ons.
If things should change one day, perhaps by that time, it is fate.
If........

p/s: thinking should I post this or not..... Decided to post to remember this moment..

JENNIFER IS MARRIED!!

2009-09-29T16:06:00.003+08:00

My boy is already 7 months old..

2009-08-20T13:57:00.003+08:00

TIME FLY.................
He has grown from a 'wawa' baby to a baby who can dine in at his dad's previous work place, sitting on his own on a baby chair...
Start to imagine when he start walking.. hmm.. =)

旧爱还是最美?

2009-05-10T00:51:00.000+08:00

有人会在你的世界里挥散不去吗?　
最近常常想起那个他.　.
　不知怎么了.　
大概我疯了吧!

Till Death do us part?

2009-04-25T17:53:00.002+08:00

Recently I'm pondering alot on this issue, Death. It seem very scary. I know it will happen to everyone sooner or later, but I just can't accept that I will have to leave everyone around me eventually.

Before I fall asleep, this will be on my mind, automatically.. Thinking about what if one day I left suddenly .. what if I fall ill and left... alot n alot...

I don't know why I can't stop thinking about this.
Am I going crazy? Or am I too afraid to leave?

I guess I'm just being over-reacting.. So called... kan bu kai..

If that day come, help me to tell my parents, my hubby and my son, I love them and ask them not to sad as I can't bear to leave too..
And all my friends, I love u all too..

Birthday of mine...

2009-03-22T20:55:00.003+08:00

Well, as I get older, birthday become very simple.. or rather, my birthday had always spent simple except for my 25th birthday I spent with my grppyz at ktv.
That was the most enjoyable and unforgettable birthday.. And surprisingly, this year I recieved a number of blessing from my friends! Thanks them for remembering my birthday too!!

This year, my dearest cousin, Anmy dated me out for dinner to celebrate my birthday. So since it was my special day, I chose to dine in at Jap restaurant so that I can eat salmon! (My fav). It was so fun eating lot of lot of salmon again! Oh ya, there was 20% somemore. Worth it!

After the dinner, we went to my hubby's workplace to have dessert and my fav, rootbeer float... ok. Very full dinner. Had a fun chat with my cousin my hubby appeared with his staffs singing Happy Birthday song for me, holding my fav durian cake! What a surprise!

And my gift for birthday? The durian cake lor... =(
But I still love it! Thanks hubby and Anmy for celebrating my birthday!!~

I want to post picture and to remember I din take any. haiz. Next yr bahz.

Baby went swimming spa @ PS!

2009-03-02T23:50:00.000+08:00

Green green... Yellow ??

2009-02-26T23:15:00.001+08:00

He finally 'pop' out @ 20th Jan 2009

2009-02-21T02:27:00.002+08:00

Before this, I'm asking him when is he going to meet me and daddy and of course, he cannot answer me.. I've been guessing everyday during my 9 months until this day..

On the 19th night, my hubby mentioned that 20th will be a busy day for him as his colleague is on PH.

After listening, I said this to him,"it's okay. Baby will come out on 20th so you don't need to go work..."

Well, baby heard it too! He acted accordingly to mummy's plan and come out on the 20th!

It was a long labour.. I experienced something is wrong at 12.30am and sms-ed my buddy to make enquiry. She advised to go hospital at once. After knowing this message, I continued to play with my psp for another 20 minutes and experienced a little cramp and headed to the Mt. A..

Reached there about 1.30am. Nurse attended to me calmly and I looked very calm too. She checked on and me and said,"Yes, u're going to labour by today.." I was quite scare when I know I was going to deliver real soon.... Everything is okay as the contraction is quite far apart..

About 5am onwards, the contraction got quite near and I was on laughing gas to ease the pain.. it did help at first... about 6plus, I was in terrible pain but thinking I could do it without epidural, I fought with the pain... Nurse came in and checked me and asked me if I want an injection on my thigh... of course I want it! Unbearable pain indeed! Hubby stood beside me looking so helpless.. I was so painful dat I didn't manage to speak up...

Finally I tortured until 8plus and decided to stop the pain by requesting for the epidural. Nurse came in and said this,"Epidural $500." Ya.. I don't care $500 or $1000. Just inject it!

Okay, if I know epidural can help so much, I will request for it once I'm in pain. Stupid me to bear with the pain for so long..

Well, it was worth the pain when I saw my baby come out so big, weighing at 3.91kg and so healthy.. And yes, I'm a mother already..

I love u, Baby Fabian~

New Year : New Sofa Cover

2009-01-04T01:19:00.001+08:00

Hee.. finally I've a new sofa cover after pestering my hubby to buy it for so long........

New Year : New Sofa Cover

Happy New Year!!~

Lovely Clock~

2008-12-30T16:25:00.003+08:00

Got my home sweet home 2 nice nice ... eh, what is this called?

haha.. anyway, it's a clock!!!

Nice nice clock......

heez...
Love it so much!

But temporary I've to leave 'em on the floor as my hubby is not home yet to fix them on the wall! Can't wait to see them fixed on the wall! =D

Mini Xmas Feast with the students

2008-12-24T15:34:00.005+08:00

We have a mini christmas feast with the students early this morning as we're open from 7am to 2.00pm....

And I only remember YUMMY LOG CAKE!! Really yummy, make me feel like buying 1kg log cake, watch tv and finish it by myself.. so enjoyable..

Wish everyone have a Merry merry Xmas & A Happy New Year!~

Bro-in-law's Wedding @ 22.12.2008

2008-12-23T02:21:00.004+08:00

Bridal Room nicely decorated!

Lovely bedroom set! Make me feel like buying a new bedroom set for myself...

Represent.. "Zao sheng Gui Zi"..

Didn't buy this kinda of "Long Feng" bedsheet for my wedding
as it is quite costly!

Wish Upon A Blissful Marriage to Jian Ming & Zhi Hui~

I misses ah beng's JOKES!

2008-12-20T18:48:00.002+08:00

Ah Beng bought a new mobile.

He sent a message to everyone from his Phone Book & said,'My Mobile No. Has changed.

Earlier it was Nokia 3310. Now it is 6610'

============ ========= ========= ======
Ah Beng : I am a Proud, coz my son is in Medical College ..

Friend: Really, what is he studying.

Ah Beng: No, he is not studying, they are Studying him.

======= ========= ===
Ah Beng : Doctor, in my dreams, I play football every night.

DR: Take this tablet, you will be ok.

Ah Beng : Can I take tomorrow, tonight is final game.

============ ========= ========= ========= ====
Ah Beng : If I die, will u remarry?

Wife: No! I'll stay with my sister.
But if I die will u remarry?

Ah Beng : No, I'll also stay with your sister.

============ ========= ========= ========= ==
Ah Beng : People consider me as a 'GOD'

Wife: How do you know??

Ah Beng : When I went to the Park today, everybody said,Oh GOD! U have come again.

============ ========= ========= ========= ===
Ah Beng complained to the police: 'Sir, all items are missing,except the TV in my house.'

Police: 'How come the thief did not take the TV?'

Ah Beng : 'I was watching TV news...'

============ ========= ========= ========= ==
Ah Beng comes back 2 his car & find a note saying 'Parking Fine'

He Writes a note and sticks it to a pole 'Thanks for complement.. '

============ ========= ========= ========= ======
How do you recognize Ah Beng in School?

He is the one who erases the notes from the book when the teacher erases the board.

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Once Ah Beng was walking, he had a glove on one hand and not on other.

So a man asked him why he did so.

He replied that the weather forecast announced that on one hand it would be cold and on the other hand it would be hot.

============ ========= ========= ========= ========= ==
Ah Beng in a bar and his cellular phone rings.

He picks it up and Says 'Hello, how did you know I was here?'

============ ========= ========= ========= ========= ===
Ah Beng : Why are all these people running?

Man - This is a race, the winner will get the cup

Ah Beng - If only the winner will get the cup, why others running?

============ ========= ========= ========= ========= ===
Teacher: 'I killed a person' convert this sentence into future tense

Ah Beng : The future tense is 'u will go to jail'

============ ========= ========= ========= ========= =====
Ah Beng told his servant: 'Go and water the plants!'

Servant: 'It's already raining.'

Ah Beng : 'So what? Take an umbrella and go.'

============ ========= ========= ========= ========= =====
A man asked Ah Beng why Ahmad Badawi goes walking in the Evening and notin the morning.

Ah Beng replied Ahmad Badawi is PM not AM

Excursion @ 19th Dec 2009

2008-12-19T15:24:00.000+08:00

Went for an excursion to the Discovery Centre.. den proceed to dunno what Army Museum..

Well, very boring for me! Dunno how to appreciate, non of the teachers know how too!

Only thing is that make us happy is dat.. we have adorable students!

Not the full strength, they're very well-behaved which make our lives much easier...

After the Army Musuem, went all the way to Vivocity just to watch 'IGOR'!

And you bet, yes!

Very Boring Cartoon whereby (teahcer) 2 of us fell asleep, 1 playing DS, another one sms-ing away....

Hope that next year June Holiday we will be going to a better place for excursion, perhaps Underwater World.... hmm.. is it better?

Economic Crisis

2008-12-18T18:51:00.001+08:00

Yes. It hit badly on my family.

Hope things turn out to be well REAL SOON!!

I feel so miserable when I can't help much.....

Really hope Year 2009 will be much better....

Bad day!

2008-12-07T23:25:00.002+08:00

Yesterday was a bad day!

Nonsense occurred, anger just rushed out from no where.
Only managed to sleep at 5am.

I don't like this.
I do not wish it will happen again.
It just hurt both of us.

I knew it.

I will ask myself to stay calm and don't let emotion override my sensible ability.

Ktv with the gals..

2008-11-29T17:31:00.002+08:00

Went ktv with the gals last nite..

Forgot to take photos.. I only rem it when I reached home.. so put the old photos we had years ago...

It considered fun, but due to my tiredness and breathless, didn't really have much laughter like before..

Was tired with a big tummy.. can't help yawning all the way...

Meimei suggested to go for dinner instead next time..

I agreed.

It will be easier to chit chat rather den singing............

Looking forward to see u gals again soon!!!

It's finally FRIDAY

2008-11-21T20:57:00.002+08:00

To celebrate it's finally weekends, I bought myself Cadbury black forest (My fav), Super Ring & Double Decker Chompin Cheese!!~

Haha, I'm going to fill my stomach with all the junk foods!
It's been long since I eat them.................

Weekend, thanks for coming~~

Feeling lonely..

2008-11-16T17:58:00.002+08:00

Don't know why...

Just feel so lonely suddenly...

Perhaps I feel being ignored...

What Kind of Human Beings R U GUYS!

2008-11-07T23:09:00.002+08:00

Well, I'm very angry.

No, I should says I don't feel good about this.

He is getting marry and everything to him is,"I don't know..", ending up I've to 'clear the shit'.
Come on, he is old enough to know what he should do, how to handle his own marriage preparation.

WHY ENDED UP TO BE ONLY ME AND MY HUBBY HELPING OUT?
WAT R THE REST DOING?????????????

I simply don't get it! It's like "NON OF MY BUSINESS".
Need to help out with gown searching la, restaurants la..
Ok!
All these are fine coz maybe they don't know where to get help. BUT, food tasting, change of menu also my business?
Why can't he himself go and talk to the manager????

Ok, perhaps I'm feeling a sense of unfairness. Very strongly.
Feeling "WHY SHOULD I?", while the others just know how to talk!

Please la, even hotel room what time check out also ask me?
Do I look so rich enough to own a hotel? I can't even own a 5 room flat lor. D**m it la!

Alright, I'm very frustrated about this matter and right now I'm very angry with those non-smokers' behavior.

We're seat on a table inside a so-called 'yellow boxes', thus she smoked. Nothing is wrong rite? At this moment, those act high class human beings pointed at us, moved their seats away, covering their noses and spout nonsenses!

I feel like standing up and slap them right in their faces! If they can't tolerate smoking smell, jolly well shit themself away from the smoking area, why they want to sit there and make stupid remarks?

IF YOU'RE SO HIGH CLASS, GO FINE-DINING, DON'T SIT AT THE LOW CLASS KOPITIAM! SHIT U PPLE!

Just feel so much to curse and swear!!!
Idiot human beings!!!!!!!

Afraid..

2008-11-04T20:38:00.000+08:00

Afraid of cheque being delayed...
alot of things need to be done by this friday!
Praying hard...

Tired..

2008-10-25T21:41:00.006+08:00

It's already into my 7th months of pregnancy...

Feeling very tired daily..
waking up in the morning is a chore for me..
Yet no choice, I've to do so for a living...

Finally, ITS WEEKENDS!
My centre is CLOSED on MON & TUES whereby I can have a good rest at home~

Thanks God!

So many choices

2008-10-16T15:49:00.002+08:00

Did I get marry too early to miss out the 'cosy' looking restaurants?

SHIT!

Being TAGGED the 2nd time.... How my buddy loves me!

2008-10-14T23:10:00.003+08:00

1. What was the first thing you thought about when you woke up?
Don't want to go work..

2. What did you do last night?
At parents' house playing mahjong with didi, his gf and auntie.

3. What is the most important of your life?
My Family.

4. What would you rather be doing right now?
To see my hubby right now.

5. What did you last cry over?
Sunday.

6. What always makes you feel better when you’re upset?
Hug from hubby or hear my mama's voice.

8. What’s the most important thing you look for in a significant other?
Intelligence, humour, sincerity (Same as buddy)

9. What are you worried about?
money, health.

10. What are you looking forward to most in this week?
Friday. My hubby is OFF on this day.

NINE HAVE YOU’S:
1. Have you ever liked someone while you had a girlfriend/boyfriend?
yes.

2. Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes.

4. Have you ever been out of the country?
Yup

5. Have you ever done something outrageously dumb?
haha. always bah.

6. Have you ever been back stabbed by a friend?
YES! Many times!

7. Have you ever had the cops called on you?
Called to check IC.

8. Have you ever dated someone younger than you?
Yes.

9. Have you ever read an entire book in one day?
haha. Yes. Childrens' story book!

EIGHT WHO’S:
1. Who was the last person you saw?
My papa & mama.

2. Who was the last person you kissed?
Hubby

3. Who was the last person you texted?
Jimmy Lee, my didi.

4. Who was the last person to call you?
My mum

5. Who was your first crush?
wow. I dun remember.

6. Who is the last person who texted?
Didi.

7.Who is the last person you freaked out on?
Louis Liow, my student.

8. Who did you last hug?
Hubby

SEVEN WHEN’S:
1.When was your last shower?
10 mins ago

2. When did you last see your mom?
15 mins ago

3. When was your last time u saw your dad?
15 mins ago

4. When did you last dress up?
For?

5. When was the last time you cried?
Last Sunday.

6. When did you last go to the movies and with who?
wow. Very long ago with hubby. Watched "Money Not Enough II".

7. When did you last listen to music?
Now.

SIX WHERE’S:
1. Where does your best friend live?
west side

2. Where did you last go?
My parents' house.

3. Where did you last hang out?
nowhere

4. Where do you go to school?
School?

5. Where is your favorite place to be?
home

6. Where did you sleep last night?
on my bed

FIVE DO’S/DOES:
1. Do you like someone right now?
yes.

2. Do they like you too?
He has to!

3. Do you ever wish you were someone else?
Nope.

4. Do you know the muffin man?
HUhz?

5. Does the future scare you?
VERY.

FOUR WHY’S:
1. Why are you best friends with your best friend?
She's funny and I simply loves her lo.

2. Why did you get a myspace?
i dont have it

3. Why did your parents give you the name you have?
My name given by my grandpa.

4. Why are you doing this survey?
Buddy's tag la!

THREE IF’S:
1. If you could have one superpower, what would it be?
i want to have the ability to go through time. ( Me too, buddy)

2. If you could go back in time and change one thing, would you?
Yes.

3. If you were stranded on a deserted island and could bring one thing what would it be?
my family.

TWO WOULD-YOU-EVER’S:
1. Would you ever get back together with any of your ex’s if they asked you?
If they don't mind I only love my hubby!

2. Would you ever shave your head to save someone you love?
Yes.

ONE LAST QUESTION:
1. Are you happy with your life right now?
Yes & No... Confused!

TAGGING…..

ANMY LIM

CHEN KAI YI

OLD BENG

LI YI WEI

Tagged by Buddy Lek.....

2008-10-14T23:00:00.003+08:00

a) people who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs & NO CHANGING OF QUESTION. ANSWER IT TRULY.

b) tag people to do this quiz & those who are tagged cannot refuse. these people must state who they were tagged by & cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by. continue this game by sending it to other people.

#1 if your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
- I can't imagine dat terrible feeling now.. I might go crazy...

#2 if you can have a dream to come true, what would it be?
- My beloved family and friends are not going to leave this beautiful world..

#3 what will your dream wedding be like?
- already happened at a normal restaurant!

#4 are you confused as to what lies ahead of you?
- Very. tot of painful right now.

#5 what’s your ideal lover like?
- tall, humourous, understanding, intelligent. (Same as buddy, but happened to be my hubby is not tall at all!)

#6 which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?
- Both.

#7 how long do you intend to wait for someone u really love?
- I waited before for 2 years. Dumbo.

#8 if the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
- eh.. let it be?

#9 is there anything that has made you unhappy these days?
- yes.

#10 is being tagged fun?
- somehow it is, when there’s nothing to keep me occupied for a long time. (Yup, agreed with buddy)

#11 how do you see yourself in ten years time?
- Fat auntie in the market bargaining for prices?

#12 who are currently the most important people to you?
- My family.

#13 what kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
- Jennet Lek.. My crazy buddy who is totally crazy with her 2 daughters right now!

#14 would you rather be single & rich or married but poor?
- Can I choose married and rich?

#15 what’s the first thing you do every morning?
- Continue pressing 'snooze' for 3 - 4 times before I finally willing to wake up.

#16 would you give all in a relationship?
- Depends.

#17 if you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick?
- the one who can give me happiness and loves me more.

#18 what type of friends do you like?
- people who’re as crazy as me. (haha, yup buddy. U R E One.)

#19 what type of friends do you dislike?
- Those who take me for granted.

#20 how many people you think they fall in love with you now?
- My hubby.

and so.. i have to tag a few of you whom i know reads my blog, here goes…

ANMY LIM

CHEN KAI YI

His career path..

2008-10-11T19:33:00.004+08:00

This is the 1st weekend I spend alone without him..
Miserable feeling I've. My world seem to stop without him by my side.

Until just, I broke down again and cried. And it's for nothing!
Been too emotional again..
I don't like myself being like this, but seem so uncontrollable.

I wondered when he used to work in retail hours year back, how did I survive through? Or rather, I still haven't prepare myself well to accept to live alone this time round..

It's too far too lonely for me...
I misses his laughter, his jokes and his everything now.
He's still sleeping when I go work, I'm asleep when he's back home. I tried waiting for him, yet too tired for me to tide through especially when I'm preggie now.

I know he don't feel good too but going back to F&B is the only choice he could make now, for the sake of our family..

Sometimes I'm thinking how wonderful it will be if I'm rich. We don't have to slog our lives just to make a living..
But to me, rich is not equal to happiness.. But money is a problem lead to happiness as well.
Confusion!

I guess this is life.
For preparing the arrival of our bundle of joy, we have to work hard...
For our next generation better upbringing, we have to sacrifice..
Just like how our parents love me and give me energy to live on till today..

How I wish I never grow up..
Weirdo life cycle.......

New bus seat in SG?

2008-10-07T23:55:00.003+08:00

Doubtful there is bus like this in singapore......

Sick again..

2008-10-01T15:43:00.003+08:00

Sick these few days.. having fever, cough, flu.... since last thursday..
Terrible feeling...

Was on MC on last sat & monday...
Finally ytd went back to work but was told to go home for more rest.. coz I was sneezing all the way and as a virus carrier, I shouldn't be der to result more patients....
So as instructed, I went home and rest..

Weird condition I've..
I feel better in the day and feel very terrible at night..
dunno wat kinda of sickness is dat... plus my baby Fabian kicking me so hard... nearly scream out shouting for help..
Luckily my hubby is der for me~

And well, today is Children Day!
As a teacher, I've to prepare gifts. =(
I spent $70 over just on the kids' pressies!
How fortunate it is to be children........

Kinda of miss my students now..
Looking forward to see them tmr and hope they like those pressies I bought for them~

Happy Children Day!~

Gifts from Baby Fabian's auntie~

2008-09-13T21:42:00.003+08:00

When baby grow up, he muz be very filial to his dearest gugu~

For loving him so much~~

Thanks Elaine Gugu on behalf of Baby Fabian

Parents Matchmaking Session IN Singapore?

2008-09-08T16:51:00.002+08:00

Rem our minister said this during the national day speech, and many people are laughing away with this idea from China...

And now, Singapore really hold the first matchmaking session at Hong Lim Park, and received Good Response!

** Well Done Dating Agency Clique Wise, 3 claps for u!! **

Attached article below : -
SINGAPORE: Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong first mooted the idea in his National Day Rally Chinese speech.

"80 parents turn up for first matchmaking session at Hong Lim Park."

And now, for the first time in Singapore, dating agency Clique Wise has organised a matchmaking session, aimed solely at the parents.
The usually quiet Hong Lim Park was bustling with activity, as over 80 eager parents turned up for the matchmaking party.

They may be camera—shy, but when it comes to finding a spouse for their child, they are anything but coy.

One parent said: "A girl normally is very shy, and more cautious than a boy. And so the parents should make the first move and you know, nudge her along."
When asked whether their daughter knew of their presence there, another parent said: "I told her, and she didn’t react, just gave her silent consent."

So it’s the daughters, it seems, who need help the most.

And these parents certainly came prepared — exchanging personal information such as job and educational histories, contact details, and photographs.

Most have children who are degree—holders in their mid—20s and 30s.
Organisers say the response had gone beyond their own expectations, and they are planning to hold more of such events in the future.
___END____

Uncle Jimmy's ROM @ 24.08.08

2008-09-07T15:22:00.003+08:00

Uncle Jimmy Big Day~

Wish upon happiness for both of them!~

Lovely Couple~ ^^

New Test of Smartness - Are you smarter than a four year old?‏

2008-09-04T23:31:00.002+08:00

A PRE-SCHOOL TEST FOR YOU

Which way is the bus below traveling?

To the left or to the right?

Can't make up your mind?

Look carefully at the picture again.

Still don't know?

Primary school children were shown this picture and asked the same question.

90% of them gave this answer: 'The bus is traveling to the right.'

When asked, 'Why do you think the bus is traveling to the right?'

They answered: 'Because you can'! t see the door to get on the bus.'

How do you feel now???

I know, me too.

* Source from Buddy * winkz

Heart of Greed Ⅱ

2008-09-01T22:34:00.001+08:00

剧名：溏心风暴Ⅱ（溏心风暴之家好月圆）

英名：Heart of GreedⅡ

监制：刘家豪

编审：张华标薛家华主

演：李司棋关菊英米雪夏雨陈豪林峰 <-super yandao 黄宗泽钟嘉欣杨怡徐子珊黎诺懿陈法拉

制作：电视广播（国际）有限公司

类型：时装商战

集数：40集

首播：TVB 2008年

语言：粤/国语

_____________ I'm totally mad about this GREED! ______________

Pressies~

2008-08-31T16:50:00.001+08:00

Teacher's Day Pressies rec'd!

Thanks & love u children lotsa!~

Short term memory..

2008-08-28T21:51:00.002+08:00

I used to laugh at my buddy for having "short term memory" and I guess my turn arrive...

Recently, I keep forgetting stuffs here and der...

It's not a good feeling.. I felt so useless when I forgot those important tasks and need people to remind me....

=(

Machiam like I left my brain at home!

Useless dandan!!!!!!!

Final Lap..

2008-08-16T14:32:00.002+08:00

After days of revision, it is the final lap.

Monday will be the start of CA2 English Paper!

Good Luck to my bunch of monkeys~

Jiayou~

Heartland...

2008-08-11T22:06:00.000+08:00

http://heartland.hdb.gov.sg/transformingdawson.html

Awaiting for this project......

Gown searching just for him....

2008-08-04T23:07:00.004+08:00

S/N : SD008
SIZE : S-M-L

S/N : SD009
SIZE : M

S/N : SD011
SIZE : S-M

S/N : SD013
SIZE : S

S/N : WG030
SIZE : S-M-L

Holiday!

2008-08-04T21:31:00.001+08:00

Looking forward to my long weekends!

Uh-Oh!~

Surprise!

2008-07-31T22:17:00.002+08:00

Today I came home with a surprise from dear.....

He cooked dinner for me!

And it was 'dory fillet with drop of lemons on it + mashed potatoes + baked beans'..

Sounded yummy right?

I envy myself at this moment to have such a sweet & caring dear~

Deeply I fall in love with him.....~

Good news ?

2008-07-18T23:20:00.002+08:00

well, just recieved a news from mum.

To me, it is a good news, but seem to be it is a bad news to him and I don't know why is it so.
But what worries me now is.... will the good news vanish and become bad news again?

Hope not.. my daddy don't like her, coz she's rude.
simple. she greet no one and yes, NO ONE!

Oh yeah, basically NO ONE LIKE HER EXCEPT HIM AND HER FRIENDS.
I mean this is not becoz she's nasty or what, just that she cannot fit into our family culture and yes, u know it, they WILL DIVORCE if they get MARRY, which I DON'T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN TO HIM!

Mummy used to say NO CHOICE. She don't like her as well but bcoz he like her so she tolerate EVERYTHING. Even to buy foods home just for her! I DON'T FEEL GOOD! My mummy is NOT A MAID.

Forget it if they still want to be together as it is their freedom to do so but I really hope HE WILL NOT REGRET AND SHE WON'T NOT REGRET TOO AS SHE SAID BEFORE SHE CAN FIND SOMEONE BETTER DEN HIM........

Leave everything to FATE, dat's why I can say for now.

Aching..

2008-07-18T20:48:00.002+08:00

Oh gosh! I'm so tired!
My legs are aching like they don't belong to me anymore.

I screamed, shouted so much TODAY.
I don't like to do so actually!
They forced me!

And after this, I'm going to sleep soon coz my medical checkup has been re-schedule to 9.45am.
Which mean I need to wake up at 7plus and den go out at 8.30am????

It is so damn EARLY!

I want to sleep till NOON NOON NOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haiz...

I need more rest! ! !

Deer Rat or Deer Mouse

2008-07-17T21:35:00.001+08:00

I won't know what is a 'deer rat' until the students mentioned........

What a surprise!

I've learnt something new today!

A new start..

2008-07-15T13:05:00.002+08:00

Tmr will be a new start for me but dunno what is going to happen in a week time.

I just simply wish everything goes well.

It's not going to be easy for me but I need to do it.
For our future, I guess this is a right decision, currently I shall say.

If I could continue this path, it is a good planning for her/his future. Or am I thinking too far ahead?

Anyway, hope this is the right track for me right now.

U.S. transgender "man" gives birth

2008-07-04T12:56:00.000+08:00

LOS ANGELES - Thomas Beatie, who was born a woman but after surgery and hormone treatment lives as a man, has given birth to a girl at an Oregon hospital, People magazine reported on Thursday.

Beatie, 34, who kept female reproductive organs when he legally became a man 10 years ago, confirmed the birth to the magazine.

The baby, conceived through artificial insemination using donor sperm and Beatie's own eggs, was born on June 29 and Beatie and the baby are "healthy and doing well," People reported.
"The only thing different about me is that I can't breast-feed my baby. But a lot of mothers don't," People quoted Beatie as saying. He has had his breasts surgically removed.

He told the magazine that contrary to published reports, the baby was not delivered by Caesarean section, but no other details about the birth were given.

The thinly bearded Beatie told "The Oprah Winfrey Show" in April he began his sexual transformation about 10 years ago when he began taking testosterone treatment and had surgery to remove mammary glands and flatten his chest.

Upon deciding to have a child about two years ago, he halted his bimonthly hormone injections and resumed menstruating.

Beatie's wife, Nancy, 46, whom he married five years ago, was unable to conceive because of a prior hysterectomy. Otherwise, he has said, "I wouldn't be doing this." His spouse has two grown daughters by a previous marriage.

She said on Oprah's show their parental roles would be fairly traditional despite his transgender status. "He's going to be the father, and I'm going to be the mother," she said.
The couple, who operate a T-shirt printing business in Bend, Oregon, are legally married and he is recognized under Oregon state law as a man.

Punggol Breeze (OTB)

2008-07-01T22:23:00.002+08:00

TYPICAL 4-ROOM FLOOR PLAN
APPROX. FLOOR AREA 95 sqm
(Inclusive of Internal Floor Area 90 sqm, Bay Window and Air-Con Ledge)

TYPICAL 5-ROOM FLOOR PLAN
APPROX. FLOOR AREA 113 sqm
(Inclusive of Internal Floor Area 110 sqm and Air-Con Ledge)

#Next to Oasis LRT Station (2 stop away from Punggol MRT Station), short distance to Tampines Expressway.

Hmm.. too far?

Inconvenience?

The Town Centre with the proposed waterway running through promises a unique waterfront retail experience. Look forward to fabulous shopping, delightful alfresco dining, fun events and exciting entertainment in this lively and vibrant hub.

Year 2008's babies of friends/buddy/family..

2008-05-27T16:54:00.006+08:00

Year 2008's babies of friends/buddy/family..

Jasmine's Prince, Jun An.. (June baby)

Francis Yeo's Prince, Hercules Yeo (June baby)

Jennet Lek's princess, Chor Yin Xi (May baby)

Elaine & Melvin 's Twins Daughter No.2, Elvina (feb babies)

Elaine & Melvin 's Twins Daughter No.1, Elana

Early Sat Morning.

2008-05-17T08:43:00.002+08:00

It's been long I've never really have a good look at the reflection of my own image in the mirror.

This morning while brushing teeth, I did take a good look at myself and realised...

I look old.

My skin stage : From bad to worst.

Figure : Pig

What shld I do?

Terrible feeling.

I daren't go out anymore..........

Why?

2008-05-14T13:05:00.002+08:00

why bcoz of such a small issue quarrel?

nid to quarrel untl he called and said meet up and settle?

still young?

I duno why they become like this and I dunwan to meddle with this problem also.

don't they know it was just a misunderstanding?

Well.

No more relatives they said.

Serious?

Haiz.

Never Give Up Hope

2008-05-08T21:12:00.000+08:00

One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big notice on the door on which it was written:
'Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym'.
In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself. The excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room.

The more people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up. Everyone thought: 'Who is this guy who was hindering my progress? Well, at least he died!'.
One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul.

There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself.

There was also a note next to the mirror that said:
'There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth: it is YOU.
You are the only person who can revolutionize your life. You are the only person who can influence your happiness, your realization and your success. You are the only person who can help yourself.

Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your partner changes, when your company changes. Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs, when you realize that you are the only one responsible for your life.

'The most important relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself'
Examine yourself, watch yourself. Don't be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities and losses: be a winner, build yourself and your reality.

It's the way you face Life that makes the difference

Buddy's Princesses...

2008-05-06T00:52:00.003+08:00

2nd Princess... hee..

Dunno her name yet!

1st Princess BbYingxuan when she's a few days old..

Don't they look alike?

hee..

The two lovely cutie daughters of my buddy...Can't imagine she's a mother of two!!!

My buddy's princesses (Steal Pic from buddy's web)

This was when 1st Princess, BbYingxuan when she was about 8mths old..

SO CUTE!

I wonder will the 2nd Princess look like BbYingxuan when she is 8 mths old..

Heez..

Buddy Lek's 2nd Princess

2008-05-03T07:18:00.002+08:00

Congrats to Buddy Lek!~

The 2nd Baby "pop out" today, 3rd May @ 2.49am..

Warmly welcome the 2nd Princess Chou!~

Really lucky never ask my buddy Lek out for supper... if not......... I WUN NOE WAT TO DO!!!

Haha.

Later on I'm gg to make a trip down to KK to visit her and 2nd princess.

So excited~

Can't wait to see her 2nd princess.

Hope her 2nd princess will like me and let me carry...

I never have chance to carry her 1st princess. Princess Xuan dun like me.. =(

hee..

Too happy to spout nonsenses now early in the morning.

Well.

I LOVE BABY!~

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2008-05-02T05:44:00.002+08:00

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2008-04-09T01:12:00.002+08:00

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In memorance of him..

2008-03-24T19:10:00.002+08:00

A friend of ours passed away on the spot at 2.50am due to motor accident.
Only age 22yrs old.
In memorance of him, 24.03.2008.

Heart doesn't feel good. It seem not real. Just like a dream.
But the fact is, he was really gone.
My mum didn't sleep the whole nite upon hearing the news at 4am plus..
He was someone we seen him grown up, just like a brother.

Saw his funeral juz now, but din go over as I cannot attend.
Friends feel sad about his sudden leaving.
The hardest person to accept I guess, is his mum.

Poor Yang mother..
I can't help anything..

Only alot of thinking about life and death..

Thoughts to be remember

2008-03-03T04:33:00.002+08:00

Just come across my mind til I met this person..
I've decided to write down my thoughts in case I forgot years later..

I've met this person who is no manner, which make me feel dat I ought to teach my kid (If I manage to have one) the correct manner and the way to behave..

I will teach my kid to greet properly. Not greeting elder is a very rude action. In my past, if I never greet anyone, I'm sorry. It was a big mistake as it is very rude to do so.. I've learnt my mistake and I dunwan my kid to repeat the same.

Of course, I will teach my kid not to bully anyone. If she/he did, I will definitely punish her/him.. It is a very wrong act for a kid to do so as well. But if my kid is being bullied, I will teach my kid to tell me who bully him instead of she/he trying her/his mean to revenge. Of course, I will teach my kid the proper channel to handle this kind of tyrant.

Most imporantly, I will definitely not allow my girl to stay at her bf's house when she turn teenage. If they really want to spend time together, come to my house instead.Same apply to my boy, NO GIRL ALLOW TO BRING HOME FOR STAY. He can go over to her house if her parents allow him to do so..
Why?
Cause I know the feeling of being called a slut for staying over at bf's house. I dun feel good, especially it was the bf's mum who said so.. My mum did scolded me when I was young for staying at bf's house, I ignored her advise and I regretted it when I grow old..
Well, to avoid all the above nonsense, NO STAYING AT BF'S HOUSE OVERNIGHT!
Now when I tot back, it is really not very good for staying at bf's house, cause girl never know how his family think of her..and den it leave a bad impression..

Actually, no one is born perfect.

I'm an easy forgive and forget person, but I dun like others to frame me, accusing me. I can easily forgive a person when she/he apologize.

But nowadays, I get paranoid easily.. I keep think of people is trying to talk bad about me, trying to frame me, dislike me... Den I will do things to let them know I know wat they are talking about me and I dislike them too... And the actually fact is, it might be nothing to do with them at all.. IT IS MYSELF GETTING PARANOID! Thinking of people hating me!

I asked doctor, he said my illness would caused such imagination. Am I going mad?
I guess I'm going to be crazy soon...

This is the 3rd person who let me go crazy by her behaviour, and I clearly know she might not be talking bad about me...But another part of me keep telling me she is spouting nonsense about me right now.. what should I do.... I take my medicine as usual, but my illness seem not recovering...

Should I see the doctor again? I dun like to be like this.. I dunwan to treat anyone badly and hate myself after the incident.. but I really cannot control my emotional..

HOW??????

Hot topics this week!

2008-03-02T19:25:00.002+08:00

Public not told of detainee's escape earlier to avoid causing panic: Police

Police Special Operations Command and Dog Unit personnel at Peirce Reservoir at Old Thomson Rd. -- ST PHOTO: LAU FOOK KONG

POLICE on Sunday said the public were alerted to terrorist leader Mas Selamat Kastari's escape from Whitley Road Detention Centre only four hours later because they did not want to cause 'public panic'.

Their first priority was to secure the checkpoints and the possible areas that the Singapore leader of the Jemaah Islamiah terror network might have fled to, Police Assistant Commissioner Wong Hong Kuan told the media at the Special Operations Command at Queensway Base.

While the border controls were being set up, the next focus was on moving resources to the scene of the escape to cordon off the area and carry out a systematic search, which is still on-going.

'Our focus in the first few hours is to ensure that all these were done,' said AC Wong.
'It was a decision taken that we need to be sure of the parameters and what is actually happening before we give out information to the public.'

"If we just give out information that he is out there, it may cause public panic.
'The issue is more about what sort of credible infomation you can give to the public so they can help police in our search effort in a very short span of time.'

Police said Mas Selamat, detained under the Interal Security Act since 2006, broke out of the detention centre at 4.05 pm last Wednesday. The media received a brief statement on his escape at past 8 pm.

About an hour after the daring escape, the manager of a petrol kiosk on Whitley Road said he saw a man resembling Mas Selamat limping up a flight of steps on a hill slope near Malcom Park, leading to the Bukit Brown Chinese cemetery.
This lead prompted the police and security forces to set up a huge cordon around the area and an intensive search. The fruitless hunt was called off after two days and moved to other areas.
'At that point, we had credible info that he was in the Malcom Road area and the priority then was to conduct the search,' said AC Wong.

'As the search was going on, the press release was being prepared to inform the public what else they should look out for and how they can assist police in the search.'
He acknowledged that the 'window of opportunity was not huge by any measure' as there was a 'very short time lag' for the police to swing into action after the detainee bolted.

AC Wong said if a fugitive is determined not to be caught, he could go into hiding for weeks.
There will be no let up in the search for the escaped detainee, he said.

________________________________________________

Ytd reported JI could be hidden at Bukit Batok area..... AND DAT IS MY AREA!!!
haha.. but fear not, coz I'm everyday at home, 12pm to 12am!!
I will not call Police if I saw him, unless there is reward!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Early Birthday Pressie

2008-02-29T05:25:00.003+08:00

Today I recieved an early birthday pressie from hubby!!
And dat is a PSP!! A gift I love it so much!~
Of coz, I've to thank hubby for buying me a PSP of white color which I like + a pink pouch!! =D

Actually I didn't expect he will bought me one.. coz he did mentioned I'm a grown up already still want to play PSP which mean he find me childish playing it.. (Used to borrow from cousin/bro)

Who knows, he surprised me with one.. no wonder he asked me what color I like..

When he asked me which color I prefer, I was thinking I want a pink one coz my bro has a black one, his gf a purple one, my small cousin a white one, another cousin a blue one... but in the end I still prefer the white one, so I told him,"if me, I will buy a white one..."

And I'm so touched he remembered what I said.. heez.. dat's why I said.. I love my hubby so much...

I still remember he was always the first one to give me pressie for my birthday..
Year 2006, he gave me a Mp3 Player.. (Spoilt now)
Year 2007, dat was a Nokia Hp N7373 (Sold)
Year 2008, A PSP I love (In my hand now) hahahhahaa

Thanks him for giving me all the wonderful birthday pressiess!~ And not forgetting other gifts for other festivals!!~

Thanks for making me feel important to u in ur life!~
I love you, hubby!!~

Instance feeling at dat moment....

2008-02-19T01:43:00.003+08:00
My thought on 15.02.2008...

It is very hard for two different person to grow up differently to live together as a family..

It is even harder to get your other half to know what you are thinking about... They will never know how you feel, what you are sad with, worry about, unless you tell them..

It is the hardest to love someone just base on believing love, as love itself is not strong enough to maintain a relationship.. there are too many unknown factors ahead the road that we could not see...

And den, my thought on 17.02.2008..

It is not very wise for me to think so much while the thing is not as I think..

I should not presume what I think he is and then he is so.. bcoz I'm not him..

I know, he do care about me.

Yes, I still love him as much, increase day by day now...

I promise him I will never let my emotional go wild..

Yes, I promise..

Chinese New Year

2008-02-05T02:15:00.000+08:00
The below source - from the net.
Chinese New Year" Legend
The Chinese New Year Season lasts for an entire month...
If you live in an area that has a Chinatown, chances are that at some point you've watched the Chinese New Year celebrations.

However, Chinese New Year (also called the Spring Festival) doesn't begin and end on a single weekend. Instead, it runs from the middle of the last month of the previous year (based on the Chinese calendar) to the middle of the first month of the new year.

By the time the New Year arrives, families have already spent several days preparing for the big event; cleaning the house, buying gifts, and cooking festive foods.

People often wonder why the date for Chinese New Year changes each year. The Chinese calendar is a combination solar/lunar calendar, based on a number of rather complex astronomical calculations, including the longitude of the sun.

Chinese New Year falls on the second new moon after the winter solstice (all months begin with a new moon). In 2008 (year 4706 on the Chinese calendar) Chinese New Years falls on February 7th.

How did Chinese New Year come to be celebrated? According to an ancient legend, people were once tormented by a beast called a Nian - a ferocious creature with an extremely large mouth, capable of swallowing several people in a single bite.

Relief from the Nian came only when an old man tricked the beast into disappearing. In reality, New Years festivities probably evolved from a desire to celebrate the end of winter and the fertility and rebirth that come with the spring, much like the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia.

Today, New Years is about family reunions and wishing everyone good fortune in the coming year. The Spring Festival is China's major traditional holiday, and is also celebrated in other parts of Southeast Asia, including Vietnam (where New Year's Day is called "Tet"), Malaysia, Singapore, Taiwan, and of course, Hong Kong.

However, in my research I couldn't find any mention of Chinese New Year's celebrations in Japan. Lisa Heupel, an expert on Japanese Culture, came up with a possible reason - apparently the Japanese followed the lunar calendar until the middle of the nineteenth century.

However, after the Meiji Restoration in 1868, they adopted the Gregorian calendar. Since that time New Years is celebrated on January 1st. While there are other popular festivals celebrating the arrival of spring, such as Hanami or the cherry blossom viewing festival, for the most part Chinese New Year goes unnoticed in Japan, except for a few small celebrations by the Chinese who live there.

Symbolic Food and Recipes to Celebrate Chinese New Year
Given the importance of food in Chinese culture, it is not surprising that food plays a major role in Chinese New Year celebrations. "Lucky" foods are served through the two week Chinese New Year celebration, also called the Spring festival.

Symbolic Chinese Foods
What gives a certain food symbolic significance?
Sometimes it is based on appearance. For example, serving a whole chicken during the Chinese New Year season symbolizes family togetherness.
Noodles represent a long life; an old superstition says that it's bad luck to cut them. Both clams and Spring Rolls symbolize wealth; clams because of their resemblance to bouillon, and Spring Rolls because their shape is similar to gold bars.

On the other hand, a food may have special significance during Chinese New Year because of the way the Chinese word for it sounds.
For example, the Cantonese word for lettuce sounds like rising fortune, so it is very common to serve a lettuce wrap filled with other lucky food.
Tangerines and oranges are passed out freely during Chinese New Year as the words for tangerine and orange sound like luck and wealth, respectively. And let's not forget pomelos. This large ancestor of the grapefruit signifies abundance, as the Chinese word for pomelo sounds like the word for "to have."

Fish also play a large role in festive celebrations. The word for fish, "Yu," sounds like the words both for wish and abundance.
As a result, on New Year's Eve it is customary to serve a fish at the end of the evening meal, symbolizing a wish for abundance in the coming year.
For added symbolism, the fish is served whole, with head and tail attached, symbolizing a good beginning and ending for the coming year.

And what about the sweet, steamed cakes that are so popular during the Chinese New Year season? Cakes such as Sticky Rice Cake have symbolic significance on many levels. Their sweetness symbolizes a rich, sweet life, while the layers symbolize rising abundance for the coming year.
Finally, the round shape signifies family reunion. So if you missed the fireworks and celebrations on New Year's Eve, don't worry - you'll have another chance to celebrate.
Chinese New Year falls on February 7th in 2008. It is the Year of the Rat.
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So guess what? Chinese New Year is arrving in 2 days time! Wish all who celebrate Chinese New Year has a prosperous year, to have good wealth and of course good health!
Happy Chinese New Year!!~

Amazing Fate about our eyes

2008-01-21T01:57:00.001+08:00

Close your eyes almost 90% and you can actually read the words!!~
Isn't it amazing?

missing you..

2008-01-15T12:48:00.000+08:00
Suddenly misses school life..

Miss my saxophone..

miss the band..

miss the joy, laughter..

All the moments of band life just rush back into my heart, just like all these happened yesterday.

Nope.

There was 10 yrs ago.

All have grow up, have a family, no longer the kids like before without any worry.

When young, I wanted to grow up so fast but now, isn't it too fast?

Grow up is not fun.

I dunwan to be an adult.

Dunwan.

A Fish Story (Extracted from email)

2008-01-11T08:00:00.000+08:00
A guy who lives at Lake Conroe (50 miles north of Houston) saw a ball bouncing around kind of strangely in the lake and went to investigate.

It turned out to be a flathead catfish who had obviously tried to swallow a basketball which became stuck in its mouth!!

The fish was totally exhausted from trying to dive, but unable to because the ball would always bring him back up to the surface.

The guy tried numerous times to get the ball out, but was unsuccessful. He finally had his wife cut the ball in order to deflate it and release the hungry cat fish.

You probably wouldn't have believed this, If you hadn't seen the following pictures...

Xmas Party 2007!~

2008-01-04T23:48:00.001+08:00

The mini party we had at my home sweet home!~
It was a beautiful memory and a wonderful xmas with my old friends!!
Those old friends who I never celebrate xmas with them before..
Hope to see them this year again!!~

Merry Christmas 2007 & Happy New Year 2008

2007-12-24T21:13:00.000+08:00

Wishing all a Merry merry Xmas & A Happy New Year!!~

Thought of the day..

2007-12-23T18:05:00.001+08:00
Read through my own blog and realised dat I've been blogging for 3 years plus...

It is not a long journey of my life during these 3 years plus, but the miracle event happened..
Like I fall sick, having thyroid, I met a few guys, got involved into relationship and found the precious one.. I even got into different career and experienced different aspects of life..

I gain and lost alot..
In life, what do we ask for... if you're to ask me, I will pray for good health and love.
Love from parents, friends, spouse, etc.. If I'm not able to have a good health, I wun be able to enjoy the love from them... and den, to some pple, they tot money do wonder.. true. but money can't find u true love, money can't buy u good health. To me, money is really secondary.

I know my parents' love for me.. I know the care and concern they bring to me..
I greatly thanks them for bringing me up and give me education and educate me on human rights and wrongs. From young, mum will teach me not to steal, not to bully as such..
I'm thankful I've them in my life...

I'm having lots of difficulites right now.. the new job doesn't fit well for me, my health is still a hassle.. but I know I nid to relaz and let things meddle in a way.. Perhaps I shall listen to my hubby, juz tender and look for another one.. (he said not to affect my health as I can't really get stress up.) My parents agree.. and as for me, I shall see and monitor den I will have the key to the doubt...

Like I always says, hope things to be better...

Bath Tub Test!

2007-12-23T00:14:00.001+08:00
During a visit to the mental asylum, a visitor asked the Director: "How do you determine whether or not a patient should be institutionalized?"

"Well," said the Director, "we fill up a bathtub, then we offer a teaspoon, a teacup and a bucket to the patient and ask him or her to empty the bathtub."

"Oh, I understand," said the visitor.

"A normal person would use the bucket because it's bigger than the spoon or the teacup."

"No." said the Director, "A normal person would pull the plug. Do you want a bed near the window?"

"It is a crow"

2007-12-09T22:05:00.000+08:00
An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?" The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?"

At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff.. "It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep askingme the same question again and again, although I have told you so manytimes 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born.On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa,when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what itwas, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 timesand when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look atthem as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me. They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

'GUARANTEE NO SPOILT'

2007-12-08T02:47:00.000+08:00
A man went on a business trip to China and wanted to buy some gifts back for his kid.

He went to a shop and found a nice looking CD player.

Wary of buying inferior goods, he asked the shopkeeper, 'What would happened if this does not work?'

The shopkeeper quietly points to the only sign in English that reads, 'GUARANTEE NO SPOILT'.

Feeling assured, he paid for the CD player and returns to his hotel.

He tried to use the CD player after returning to the hotel but it would not even switch on.

He quickly return to the shop and asked for a refund or an exchange for another unit.

When the shopkeeper refused to give either, the man points to the sign assuring him of a guarantee.

The shopkeeper then said, 'Brother, you are in China. We read from the right to the left.'

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

2007-12-03T03:50:00.000+08:00
This is a very good article. read it.

Those who are still single may learn something from here....

Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage....

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?' I

noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?'

In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle.

In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.

You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love...

Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept of my feet.'

Think about the imagery of that __expression.

It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades.

It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages breakdown.

People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. I

nfidelity is the most obvious.

But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.

It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this): THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.

It'll NEVER just happen to you.

You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out.
That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy .

And most importantly, it takes WISDOM .
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery.

There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.

Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling .

Good News and Soul thinking..

2007-11-30T02:46:00.000+08:00

Good News
1. My ear infection has totally cured. Doctor Koh was surprised about the fast healing and I, happy for no SURGERY. Oh YEaH!~
2. My thyroid medicine has been reduced from 3 types to 2. Give me some clap! Yeah!!

And den..
I'm thinking how glad I can open my eyes everyday as I'm not yet prepare to leave this world.
I've alot of things undone..

Met a friend recently by coincidence.
She was sick a year back. She had more white blood cell which is a disease. (白血病)

"Refers to a blood cell that does not contain hemoglobin.
White blood cells include lymphocytes, neutrophils, eosinophils, macrophages, and mast cells.
These cells are made by bone marrow and help the body fight infections and other diseases.
Also called WBC."

And good news too, she had the bone marrow surgery and she's fine now, looking healthy.
I guess she is glad that she's alive, she could enjoy the world once again.. no more medicine anymore.

Soul Thinking..

We do not know when will god take away us from our family and friends so we really need to treasure every moment when we could breath in the fresh air and says,"what a wonderful world it is..."

Patients in hospital do not ask for anything much. They dunwan fame, money, status..etc..
They just want to be alive.

But why we still heard news like nephew killed his uncle for his money, soccer player changing team for fame, NKF cases happened dued to money and forget there are so many patients in need of the money for their kidneys..

We need to thank god for letting us open our eyes everyday, to feel the love by your family, friends and not to be bother by those things that u could not take away when you leave this world.

From dust to dust.

We born with nothing and we leave with nothing.

I do not agree for working so hard to get a promotion and make yourself sick, I do not agree to think of money only and do things evil/cruel forgetting those who love you...

I just feel It is so great to be alive, living happily with your loved ones.

I thank god for giving me the best parents and the caring husband by my side..

Thank you...

Xmas coming

2007-11-26T11:33:00.000+08:00
Isn't it fast?

Xmas is coming soon...

Hmm, how I wish I could have a great Xmas with my hubby..

But guess it is a no-no as I can't really join big crowd for countdown at the Orchard Road to see the beautiful lightings along the road

Because whenever I go out nowadays, I will get breathless/diddy/weak/no-strength...

Reason for diddy; Realised during Sept when I had a big fall due to diddy, seen doctor and test shown that my sugar level is low.

And another thing happens on me since March..
My ear infection, I haven't recover til now and the condition get worsen.

This wednesday I will go back for check to see if my condition become better after eating antibiotic.. If not, I will have to go for operation.

Thyroid condition has not been improving..

Doctor says I did not take good care of myself.

I admit that at times, I juz dun feel like eating medicine to make myself feel so sick..

I know I can't do that.. yet I still go stubborn..

I've to take so mani types of medicine, realli feel so suck that I'm not healthy at all!

IF I COULD DO SO...

2007-11-19T08:40:00.000+08:00
No one understand except my family members and hubby.

forget it.

Can't bother to explain.

END.

Wedding Dinner Photos arrived!

2007-11-10T04:26:00.001+08:00

BoO BOo.. My cousin opening the door...

Brothers Team and Look, 2118 striked 4D but I din buy coz I 4got the car plate already, only my Father-in-law he alone striked!

Hubby must be saying this,"Open the door lei.. Let me in!"

I dunno this cup is sweet or sour... haha.. So poor thing...

Discussing big plan?

YOU ARE PRETTY!!!

My Family!~

Can u feel my cousin is nervous? haha..

My VIP table!

Take a look at the last row, ain't the ladies tall?
Take me as the measuring point, me 1.72cm, using no heel shoe...

Hubby VIP Table!

"SHhhh.... Yam Seng too loud already!!"

See how crazy women are!~ hahaa

Long long time friends + Buddy!~

My HKSS Classmates!

Ah heng, smile lei....

Thinking changes?

2007-11-07T03:12:00.000+08:00
Ok.

Spoken to a 24 yrs old guy couple days ago.

He's with NTU, working PT as a editor at News Asia.

He was telling a story about his gal friend and her hubby.

Short and sweet. The guy had an affair, wife found out and filed for separation.

Ok.

Next.

My friend got involved with the gal friend. Involved as in "BED", and the shocking part is, it happened at the gal's house.

I asked him,"do u think it is right to do it when the gal is married?"

He said,"It takes 2 hands to clap, she dun have a good sex life.. further more, the husband has an affair outside, why can't she?".

I listened and tot, so? It is still not right although the husband betrayed her first.

He said,"Shld you live in a democratic society and afraid of pple calling u a slut and not fight for your own sex desire, ur rights..and just tolerate all these just becoz u r married..?"

I tot to myself. His thinking, his view, I cannot change. But I just feel u could do anithing u like/desire before marriage, but not after.

And for me, I took the vow to be husband and wife and I should still faithful to my husband, and I shall always be so.

No conflict, doubt at all.

He tried to talk me over and accept his thinkings, but I can't.

He said I have the mind of 70s.

Well, I can talk openly relate to SEX, but will only do it with my husband, coz I'm married, it is dat simple.

Whatever it is. I do not agree wife can easily have an affair outside, just bcoz men did, why can't women!

Geographer Nite Out!

2007-11-03T04:30:00.000+08:00

Have a night out with hui today. She has been mentioning about Geographer 1 and 2 so much thus I decided to drop by Geographer 2 and check out the atmosphere.

P/s: I've not been clubbing for years.

ok.

Not a big pub.

Dun have a big crowd. Good place for relaxing.

Drank Green tea with Chivas. Nice.

Thai band singers are quite handsome but too friendly.

Thai dancers look like "girls" to me, going ard tables to let guys hug and kiss them.

Boss look like my friend, Samuel. Big tummy.

Saw Hui's always mentioned Thai guy dat likes her. Photo is more handsome den realistic.

Met childhood friend, Guanxiong. Look the same except he keep mentioned I din invited him to my wedding.

Hubby came over from another pub and well, he's drunk. Fall on the bed and zzzz.

Overall, the cab fare is expensive.

Typical Singaporean...

2007-10-26T02:02:00.000+08:00
I recieved this email from more den 1 more and feel I shall change.....

Who says our English is teruk.?
Just see below -
Ours is simple, short, concise, straight-to-point, effective etc......... ahem....

WHEN GIVING A CUSTOMER BAD NEWS
Britons: I'm sorry, Sir, but we don't seem to have the sweater you want in your size, but if you give me a moment, I can call the other outlets for you.

S'pore: No Stock.

RETURNING A CALL
Britons: Hello, this is John Smith. Did anyone page for me a few moments ago?

S'pore: Hello, who page?

ASKING SOMEONE TO MAKE WAY .
Britons: Excuse me, I'd like to get by. Would you please make way?

S'pore: S-kew me

WHEN SOMEONE OFFERS TO PAY
Britons: Hey, put your wallet away, this drink is on me.

S'pore: No-need, lah.

WHEN ASKING FOR PERMISSION
Britons: Excuse me, but do you think it would be possible for me to enter through this door?

S'pore: (pointing the door) can ar?

WHEN ENTERTAINING
Britons: Please make yourself right at home.

S'pore: Don't be shy, lah!

WHEN DOUBTING SOMEONE
Britons: I don't recall you giving me the money.

S'pore: Where got?

WHEN DECLINING AN OFFER
Britons: I'd prefer not to do that, if you don't mind.

S'pore: Dowan la...

IN DISAGREEING ON A TOPIC OF DISCUSSION
Britons: Err. Tom, I have to stop you there. I understand where you're coming from, but I really have to disagree with what you said about the issue.

S'pore: You mad, ah?

WHEN ASKING SOMEONE TO LOWER THEIR VOICE.
Britons: Excuse me, but could you please ! lower your voice, I'm trying to concentrate over here.

S'pore: Shut up lah!

WHEN ASKING SOMEONE IF HE/SHE KNOWS YOU.
Britons: Excuse me, but I noticed you staring at me for some time.. Do I know you?

S'pore: See what, see what?

WHEN ASSESSING A TIGHT SITUATION.
Britons: We seem to be in a bit of a predicament at the moment.

S'pore: Die-lah!!

WHEN TRYING TO FIND OUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED
Britons: Will someone tell me what has just happened?

S'pore: Wat happen Why like that.... ??

WHEN SOME ONE DID SOMETHING WRONG
Britons: This isn't the way to do it here let me show you,

S'pore: Like that also don't know how to do!!!!

WHEN ONE IS ANGRY
Britons: Would you mind not disturbing me

S'pore: Go Away lah!

ERmmm... Its not just teruk... Its bloody damn teruk... good grief...!

Buddiez Roxz

2007-10-23T01:05:00.000+08:00

Buddy Reyne aka ah ngoh aka Jennet aka panpan, I'm so glad to have you as a buddy by my side for more den half of my life spend on earth... without I dunno what will I become..
Thanks for being my best sister!

coz u know la, I dunno how to tell u all this when I'm with you.. shy* u c.. heez...
I really feel so honour knowing you! Having this feeling for the past 16 years we know each other..

Thanks god for letting u appear in my life, just like my husband, god makes him appear in my life to make me feel complete!

Thanks to wake me up in the past when I was wrong..

Thanks to comfort me when I'm sad, although u r not good at it!

Thankd for your advise and guidance when I meet troubles/problems...

Our irresistible grppyz has seem to fall apart which really make me misses all the fun we spent together back den... especially when friend get close to u, den I get so jealous till u laugh real loud at me... heez// times fly as I says..

And Now, I sincerely wish u all the best in your career and your family life!!~
wish me all the best too okie?

Loving you deeply de
Joanne aka dandan aka ah 'e aka kaithlynn (i love this name!) haha..

Changes through the years...

2007-10-22T03:29:00.001+08:00
I was browsing through my old photos *Year 2003 - 2006 and realised I did lookz abit differ now and den.... and my hairstyle has been short/shoulder most of the times....
My current hair is the longest I ever keep already. haha. Due to weather, I guess I'm going to have a hair cut soon!

Every single photo will bring me back to dat arena when taken, so naturally memory flashes back and I've a smile to myself thinking of it...

*It is always good to have something for me to remind us of the happy moments.

Ok.

Time is running very fast these few years, just like I blinked my eyes a few times and it is 2007 now what, ending soon..............

I guess blink blink again, I will be annouce as a 30 age woman le....

Well.

Objective.

I have to learn to be a real adult although I'm adult already.

Hubby Peter Pan will assist me.

And I will pronounce I'm a mature mother when the time is ripes!

Jiayou!

Newborn Baby!~

2007-10-19T01:12:00.000+08:00
Congratulations to u, Ms. Rachel!~
A piece of good news i recieved yesterday..
My friend has give birth to a baby boy, weighing at 3.5kg, dunno he looks like who yet....
heez...

so happy for her!~

Congratulation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

6120 Classic

2007-10-16T03:29:00.001+08:00

My hubby just bought a new handphone as the previous one, we decided to trade it before it turn into a $0 value phone...

And as a new toy, I start to test out the phone camera... as usual to take photos non-stop...........................and editing the photos taken non-stop.............

So fun, its been sometimes I've been doing this self-love action... hahaa.. enjoyable night...

*photos are green green de bcox I took them with my yellow light on.. hahaha..dat's the unique effect, although one of my friend does not know how to appreciate and said those looks spooky!

Funny Memory...

2007-10-14T01:15:00.000+08:00

Well, as a married woman at this mid-night hour, what can I do?

Basically hubby is already at the house of "zhou gong" playing chess, so left me alone finding things to do....

So.........

I decided to surf net and den.....

juz went to my buddy's blog and browsed through her old posts. (as there is no update u see..)

ok.. focus point.

I saw this particular post and I laughed real loud at it. I tot back of dat moment and well, dat matter is really stressing all my power at dat time...

so happy enuff, i leave his fists. Heez

I cut and paste it to show my silly action...

please see...........

Friday, March 31, 2006

i am forced to...
i do not want to do this..i have no intention to post it at all..i know it is unethical..but i'm being forced to do it..there are times when you have to make certain kind of decisions..and this time.. i have decided..

No matter what the cost will be..

No matter what it might result in..

I have to do it..

It is something which i HAVE TO share with all...+++

Buddy PInk pig, nvr failed to tickle my funny bones with her antics..At times she seems quite street-smart, at times she just need a little guidance...

This time.. i think she's heading nowhere..---She mentioned few times about her irritating boss who accussed her of doing something which she did not really do, and not accomplishing tasks assigned to her. hence somebody (my current hubby) suggested to her to write a daily report of her tasks and send to her boss..

She did.

However, in a cute way..

She told me,"i think the report i'm writing is giving me so much stress.. i have to find something to do every now and then.. to ensure my report is filled up thoroughly, and my boss willnot see that i did not do what's assigned to me.. writing up the report is like smacking herself hard in the face""But it's just a list of what u have done and just cc him all the msgs to ur boss, what's so stressed about it..?"

I Wonder...Until she tells me about it...The report is soooooooooo thorough..TOO THOROUGH i say...She basically had to list down what she does EVERY MINUTE.Well...

A picture speaks a thousand words...

No wonder she's so stressed...

I guess she's feeling less stressed now?

coz.. after sharing her sorrows with us.. all of us.. huihui, jaejae and i..

practically rolled on the floor... LaUGHInG at her "meticulous" performance!

We're not evil..

It.. is just...SO HILARIOUS!!!

[HA!!!!]

Well... She makes a good shipping agent.. recording the times Specifically..

Shipping agents needs talents like her..

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Wedding Photos are here!

2007-10-09T02:05:00.002+08:00

I've a great day during my wedding from morning to night...
Thanks all my jiemeis and my husband side those brothers for their kind help, especially my buddy!! Buddy, without u, I dunno what to do.. owe u a meal, I promise!
Oh, and my cousin, Anmy too.. she's really my best cousin! I love u, jiejie!
My husband has a memorable day playing the games from jiemeis and I enjoyed the wonderful feeling when my husband said the reason why he wants to marry me....
I guess my husband wants to thank Dave and Garbiel so much, guess my husband owe them a meal too! heez..
I'm also so glad to have those close friends, schoolmates, colleagues attending my wedding and share my joy and happiness! Thanks so much for them for letting out their times and attended my wedding!
I really have the most enjoyable and wonderful night, without them, I will not be so happy!
hmm, but dinner photos are not here yet, so friends, dun ask me for the photos so fast!!
heez..
Will update soon upon collection!~

My Big Day!

2007-09-30T18:08:00.000+08:00
Wedding Photos collected on the 27th.. Cd is with my sister-in-law right now, so I can't update any photo now, tot I wish to do so...

"过大礼" done on the 29th... By end of ytd den I know giving out cakes to relative is such an easy" task.

Having last fitting and collection of gowns on 3th oct.

Going for medicure on the 4th oct evening.

Ok. Time passes without informing.

Although quarrel happens btw both of us, we still move on as husband and wife as pledged at the Registry of Marriage, not to leave each other regardless of sickness, poor......blah blah blah...

And now, 5th Oct, My BIG Day is finally Here!~
A day I share my joy with my friends and relatives..

Our beginning
2005 Nov I know my husband as a naggy man who keep calling me on the phone and keep "hi hi" at me on the msn...

I still remember sometimes I pretended I'm busy and hang up with him..but sometimes I do enjoy our conversation when the topic interested me.

When I was out with friends, he will still called and talked to me even if I told him I'm playing mahjong. Well, he tot I could multi-tasks.. so very normal those friends would ask me to concentrate on the game and disturbed me in a way like, asking who is the guy.. why he talked so long still dunwan to hang up.

And he made himself clear that he want me to be his gf.. I did not answer him seriously and always attempted to change topic. He knew I was trying to escape dat question and he let me had my way.

Recieving call from him become a routine.

But during dat period, I fell for someone else and realised later it was just a crush. A very stupid thing to have a crush for dat guy.

Although he was aware of such a guy I fell for but he did not give up on me and continued on to call me everyday.

Somehow or rather, we understand each other bit by bit over the period of 1 year 3 months on the phone everyday. Meet up was quite seldom, and even if we meet up, its would be in group of people.

This continued on till there was such a week dat I realised I fall in love with him.
He did not call me for dat week, no sms, no call, nothing from him. No news.
I begin to think about him, wondering what he is doing... And my heart seems very weird. I tot of him during day, during work, during lunch, during dinner, the night is the worst. Looking at my phone is the constant reaction, hoping he call.. but he did not.

Finally, I make my intitative to sms him and asked silly question like "how r u?".. And he replied. I felt so happy at dat moment.. The feeling is like, I'm the happiest woman in the world..
I beginned appreciated every moment I could talk to him , to meet up and became addicted to his voice, his jokes, his problems... his life...

At dat period, I was looking forward that he could ask me to be his gf once again and I will definitely says YES.

And he did.

Dat particular night, as usual we chatted on the phone for hours and the feeling of missing him was so strong.. I told him I dunno why I felt like seeing him right now and he really came over to my downstair and we chatted till morning 7plus.. I feel that from north to west is not very near, for him to come over at midnight to me is a very touching move..

Dat morning, I slept very soundly, guess there's smile on my face when I was sleeping bah.. heez..

That was when the relationship starts naturally, like we're long time couple.

During the courtship, he teached me alot on certain things and see things in different perspective. He taught me his knowledges on things I do not know. He taught how to survive at a back-stabbing world...

The feeling of I want to live with him for the rest of my life is very certain and he also think dat way.

Soon, we decided to get marry and den, 5th oct is my wedding big day!!!!

Friends asked me that I only know him for such a short period, will it be abit rush...
I do agree but the love for him is very different from others.
Its no longer puppy love, no longer like young times.. It is different, I also duno how to put it.

Humans grow up in different ways and there's bound to be disagreement in different things/thinking.

I don't think there's no quarrel btw a couple, most importantly is how we manage the problem, how to accept each other, how to appreciate each other and I really thank god for giving us a chance to know each other therefore I get my happiness, sadness, argument with him, only him, living as an atom together.

And of coz, I hope we can stay happy and maintain happiness for the rest of my life and never regret marrying him...

If one day, suitation does not happen the way I expect, I still feel thankful for me to know him.

Please bless me all the best, god!

Recent Condition

2007-09-08T20:49:00.000+08:00
Found a job recently.
Although Health is still not at tip top condition.
Feel no work mean no income.
Mean no medicine fees.

If health does not allow, den make further plan.

Peter Pan found a new job too.
Starting 10th Oct.
Hope we have a good start.

Friends are fine. Except a few.
Buddy's Bbxuan is growing fine and cute too.
Found out a schmate I used to admire (since sec 3 I never bump into him before, and I dunno him actually) is working with my cousin and irresistible grppyz member, coping fine and have a very fierce gf.
Another schmate buddy proposed to his gf successul and perhap planning his marriage now.
Rachel is going to give birth this sep month end. So fast.

-end-

Thyroid strike me

2007-07-18T18:02:00.000+08:00

I've not been in the top tip condition of health for a month plus already. I get tired easily - fatigue.. I walk for abit, I started to feel lack of oxygen.. I can't tolerate heat and I get very moody from time to time..

Beginning I tot, I could be pregnant.. seen doctor and he said he suspected too and it too early to know so he asked me go back weeks later.. But weeks later, my menses come and I confirmed it is not.

Weeks ago, mum saw my neck and said something is not right. I insisted I'm okay. So nothing is done.

Meet up with family last week. Auntie saw my neck and suspected I've been infected with the illness thyroid. Thus she asked me if I feel tired easily, if I've no strength.. which is yes.. I walk abit and I feel I can't walk anymore. I can't handle heavy stuffs..

My mum decided to bring me to the doctor and den blood test taken, yesterday the report is out and yes, doctor confirmed my condition and mentioned it is quite serious.

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My report of Thyroid Function:

RESULT UNIT REF. RANGE
free T4 *68.6 pmol/L (9.0 - 25.0)
TSH *<0.01> (0.40-4.70)
Thyroid Microsomal Ab *1:6400 <1:100

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Doctor said I cannot be pregnant from now til a year on medication. He will check on me regularly to determind if my health is suitable for pregancy. But I will still need to be on medication unless the illness is cure totally.

My uncle is also a thyroid patient. He has been taking medicine for years to control symptoms affecting his normal daily life.

I wish more people to know about this illness and realised it fast if you feel of the signs and symptoms.

Now, I've the following signs:
Fatigue
Mood swings (I often cry out of sudden)
Forgetfulness
Dry, coarse skin and hair (have rashes more easily den before)
Irritability/nervousness
Sleep disturbances (Can't sleep at time)
Muscle weakness/tremors
Enlarged thyroid (goiter)
Heat intolerance (I will get very breathless and dizzy when I feel warm)
Weight loss (loss 8kg in weight within 1months plus)

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THE THYROID

The influence of the thyroid gland is both far-reaching and critical to normal body function. It affects heart rate, cholesterol level, body weight, energy level, muscle strength, skin condition, vision, menstrual regularity, mental state and a host of other conditions. Despite its pervasive influence, however, the thyroid gland and its disorders are still not widely understood among the general public.

The thyroid is a butterfly shaped gland which wraps around the front part of the windpipe just below the Adam's apple. It produces hormones that regulate the body's metabolism and organ function.

Thyroid hormone influences essentially every organ, every tissue and every cell in the body.The most common thyroid disorder is an underactive thyroid, or hypothyroidism. This results when the thyroid fails to produce enough hormone.

Less frequently, an overactive thyroid condition, or hyperthyroidism, occurs when the thyroid produces more thyroid hormone than is needed. If properly treated, patients with thyroid disorders lead normal, active lives.

When left untreated, however, thyroid disorders can affect the patient's cardiovascular system, reproductive system and other major organs.

How the Thyroid Functions

The thyroid gland operates as part of a feedback mechanism involving the hypothalamus and the pituitary gland.

First, the hypothalamus sends a signal to the pituitary gland through a hormone called TRH (thyrotropin releasing hormone).
When the pituitary gland receives this signal, it releases TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone) to the thyroid gland. Upon receiving TSH, the thyroid responds by releasing two of its own hormones, T4 and T3, which then enter the bloodstream and affect the metabolism of the heart, liver, muscle and other organs.

T4 is the main hormone released by the thyroid. T3 is made in the tissue after T4 to T3 conversion. Finally, the pituitary "monitors" the level of thyroid hormone in the blood and increases or decreases the amount of TSH released, which then changes the amount of thyroid hormone in the blood.

Signs and Symptoms
In the case of mild thyroid failure, patients often do not show obvious symptoms and thus may not even be aware of their condition. Left untreated, however, mild thyroid failure can progress to where symptoms begin to surface.

Symptoms of Hypothyroid
Some of the signs and symptoms of hypothyroidism include:
Fatigue
Hoarse voice
Mood swings
Difficulty swallowing
Forgetfulness
Intolerance to cold
Dry, coarse skin and hair

Detection and Diagnosis
Hypothyroidism may be difficult to detect because its often vague signs and symptoms are easily confused with other conditions, such as the natural aging process, menopause or stress. Many patients remain undiagnosed and untreated for years due to their lack of awareness of hypothyroidism and its signs and symptoms.

Fortunately, even mild hypothyroidism can be detected by a sensitive TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone) test, which enables physicians to identify thyroid disorders much earlier than with previous tests. By detecting hypothyroidism in its early stages, physicians may administer treatment and prevent the onset of symptoms.

Treatment
The goal for treating hypothyroidism is to restore normal blood levels of thyroid hormone by replacing missing hormone. The treatment of choice for hypothyroidism involves supplementing the body's naturally produced hormone with a synthetic hormone tablet, levothyroxine sodium, which is generally taken for life.
After levothyroxine sodium therapy has been prescribed, periodic TSH tests are needed to monitor thyroid hormone levels. Because patient dosage requirements may change over time according to age, body weight, cardiovascular status and other diseases or medications, it is essential to monitor patients' medication needs on a regular basis.

Monitoring precise dosages effectively prevents recurrence of symptoms of hypothyroidism and prevents over-replacement, which can in turn lead to hyperthyroidism.Hypothyroid patients should not switch to different brands of levothyroxine sodium without consulting a physician.

Both the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists (AACE) and the American Thyroid Association (ATA) have released clinical guidelines recommending that patients be retested and their dosages adjusted accordingly if they switch levothyroxine sodium products. AACE further advocates that physicians treat patients with the same brand of levothyroxine throughout their lifetime. There is no place for Armour Thyroid in therapy. Beware of pseudoscientific non-diseases such as Wilson's.

HYPERTHYROIDISM
Hyperthyroidism, a less common thyroid disorder, occurs when the thyroid gland becomes overactive and produces too much thyroid hormone.
It affects approximately one to two million Americans, and is more prevalent among women, particularly those in their 30s and 40s. The most common form of this disorder is Graves' disease, the illness that affected Olympic athlete Gail Devers and former First Lady Barbara Bush. The cause of Graves' disease is unknown.

Signs and Symptoms
The spectrum of possible signs and symptoms resulting from an overactive thyroid includes:
Symptoms of Hyperthyroid
Irritability/nervousness
Sleep disturbances
Muscle weakness/tremors
Enlarged thyroid (goiter)
Irregular menstrual periods
Heat intolerance
Weight loss
Vision problems or eye irritation

Treatment
Treatment of an overactive thyroid may be complex and requires a long-term care plan. Once diagnosis is confirmed, treatment involves reducing the amount of thyroid hormone produced by the gland.
Treatment methods for hyperthyroidism include antithyroid drug therapy, which blocks thyroid hormone production; radioactive iodine treatment, in which the overactive thyroid is disabled and reduced in size; and thyroid surgery to remove part or all of the gland, which is usually used to treat very young patients with Graves' disease and older patients with diseased thyroid glands.Radioactive iodine therapy is currently the treatment of choice in most cases in the United States.

Patients are given a dose of radioactive iodine that essentially "shuts down" thyroid hormone production. Normal hormone levels must often be restored through levothyroxine sodium tablets. These patients require careful lifetime management to ensure they are receiving the proper dosage of thyroid medication.Surgery is a good option for some, especially if a nodule is present that is suspicious of FNA.

TSH TESTING
A Johns Hopkins University study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association proposes routine testing for mild thyroid failure among the general adult population. It concluded that periodic screening men and women 35 and older at regular intervals is as cost-effective a health strategy as screening for more common medical conditions such as high cholesterol or high blood pressure.

In making this determination, the study involved the use of the test widely considered to provide the most accurate measure of thyroid gland activity the sensitive thyroid-stimulating hormone (TSH) test.In the past, doctors were unable to detect thyroid disorder until a patient's symptoms were fairly advanced.

With the sensitive TSH test, however, physicians are able to diagnose thyroid disorders at an earlier stage in many cases, even before patients begin to experience symptoms. TSH tests, due to their high degree of sensitivity, enable physicians to detect even slight abnormalities in thyroid function.

Early detection and treatment of thyroid disorder allows physicians to prevent the onset of disease symptoms and curb potential organ effects for their patients.Prior to the introduction of the TSH test, the standard blood tests for thyroid disorders measured the levels of thyroid hormones (T4 and T3) in the blood. Research showed, however, that these hormone levels could be within the normal range even when the thyroid was not functioning normally. The TSH test offers a marked advance by identifying the amount of thyroid-stimulating hormone produced by the pituitary gland, the organ that signals the thyroid gland to produce more or less T4 and T3 based on the body's need.

In effect, the TSH test takes advantage of the "wisdom" of the pituitary gland, the organ that first recognizes thyroid dysfunction, and therefore provide a more exact measure of thyroid failure.A TSH test is administered by drawing a small blood sample and sending it to a laboratory for analysis.
The laboratory will read the level of TSH, and based on a reported normal value range, it will determine whether the level is below normal (hyperthyroid), above normal (hypothyroid) or within the normal range (euthyroid).

People who believe they may have a thyroid disorder should ask their primary care physician or an endocrinologist to have their TSH level assessed. In support of this precise tool for measuring thyroid activity, the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists released clinical practice guidelines strongly advocating the use of TSH tests for diagnosing thyroid conditions.Beyond disease diagnosis, TSH tests play a critical role in helping physicians manage thyroid disorders.

In this capacity, TSH tests are used to determine precise medication treatment dosages for patients with hypothyroidism and hyperthyroidism, as well as to monitor changes in dosage requirements over time.

Resignation Letter

2007-05-25T23:55:00.000+08:00
I really did think properly and realised: -
1. I've nothing to make me come work
2. I really do not like the management
3. Pay is low for the job scope given
4. No job Prospect
5. Colleagues left one by one

I guess its enuff to actually hand in my resignation letter today, and late day will be 22nd June..
Hopefully the new job will come in to be good or... I continue to find a better prospect job..
Although I've been here for quite a short period, '05 to present til now..
But the heart somehow left, long ago..

No matter what, wish my boss all the best!~

Granny Wong's Bird-Dae~

2007-05-22T18:00:00.000+08:00

dated 18.05.07/. My Granny wong last day service @ my company, bird-day tml..
whereby we spent our nite at Marina Square Ktv!

Small Mr. Ngu...

Stupid ah ma....

Trying to dance...

Colleagues are fun!!!

My ai ren...

Hahaha...guess what, we're going to strip him!!

With me helping of coz...

Forcing a kiss.....

And act cute...........

and continues....

and go on....

Granny Wong Big Butt!

2007-05-22T17:36:00.001+08:00

Granny Wong's Farwell!!

2007-05-22T17:18:00.001+08:00

Great Nite Out with ex-schmates!

2007-05-22T01:20:00.001+08:00

6 of us, Jurong Point Swensen, 17th May 2007

Were really happily chatting about our old times..and these 2 ladies in the middle seem to forgot everything about "school life"..

Buddy & Boonboon, where I realised I never took any photo with buddy ley..wasted!

This is nurjaez.. heez.. Jasmine aka Nur..

Jas & Jos (Old times super good friends)

This is the windbreaker lady we are chatting about for a moment..

Congrats, Boon @ rom. 07.07.07

Well, we should have such outings often..really miss the old time together..
Hong Kah Secondary School Rox!

Shifting house day

2007-05-11T10:37:00.000+08:00
Yesterday was my shifting house day.
Shifting to the house of me and my hubby..
The night before we were already very busy packing our remaining stuffs there have not been empty into our trash bags.

The day has finally arrived, waking up at 8plus, after a quick wash up, we went market to purchase items for praying.
For chinese tradition of Buddhism/Taoism, we will purchase fruits, joss sticks, joss papers, as such to pray for peace, safe and of coz good luck.

And also, for the beauty of my house, we also rush down to my old neighbourhood to have my curtain alter. And well, 4 pieces cost $20.00/. Husband asked whether it is cheap or expensive, actually I also don't know, therefore I just said,"eh, think its reasonable ba.."
Hope this is a good answer.

Feeling hungry, both of us agreed to have our breakfast first before continuing to hunt for basin, den hubby recieved a call. His auntie called and started her power tongue and continued on for nearly 1 hour.

Since so, I started to call SPC to order gas for my new house and den I realised it is not cheap for a bottle of 13.5kg gas. 1 bottle costs $27.00/. Deposit of $20.00/. Pipe & Cap cost $50.00/. And there goes my $100.00 bucks/. (But later on papa give me some cash, which ended up is papa paid for me)

After the hung up, my hubby told me about his auntie said to buy a stove + charcoal, this is to put outside our house door, start the fire and when the fire is strong & fierce, we have to move the stove into our kitchen and start to boil a kettle of water. The purpose is to gain wealthy. Next to bring a fan to our house first, switch on the fan while we're starting the fire, so called,"风生水起".
So, we did followed as said, no harm trying if this is going to improve our lives.

When the preparation is ready, we set off to our new house. Upon arrived, we started to organise our stuffs and proceed to collect our table for praying. And actually the previous night, mama passed me some cash to purchase table. I went to check out the price and realise a red top square table cost $65.00/ while a mahjong table costs only $39.00/, therefore I proceed asking uncle this,
"Uncle ah, I ask you hor, can I actually use Mahjong Table to do praying?"
The answer is good.
"Of coz you can when its a brand new one."
So, mahjong table is purchased with me smiling happily. I love to play mahjong!

After collecting of table, hubby went to buy some flowers & thailand lemon. These are also items for praying.

Proceed home and fridge, washing started to come in.
Follow by, the furniture also arrived, but problem arised.
They sent 2 left arms sofa, which consists of 1 left arm of 2 sitters, 1 left arm of 3 sitters. Which is totally wrong. Hubby demanded them to exchange it on the same day but delivery come not compromise his request therefore hubby get very angry and quarrelled and them. I also feel it is very careless of them not to check probably their stocks before they come over. Of coz after many rounds of quarrel, request, co-ordination, they finally tried their best to slot in our delivery today at 7.00pm. And of coz, I hope this time round will be good and prefect. I dunwan anymore problems to arise.

Den the real moving start, manpower of mama, me, hubby and my primary 6 cousin. It is very terrible and feel so tired. Mama has ache on her legs, cousin teck is young, but strong. Me is lousy, big in frame but no strength, my hubby super skinny but strength super big. After round and round of up & down the stairs, finally we're on our way to new house. Unloading is better, got Papa, uncle jimmy, me, mama, cousin teck & of coz hubby. Not become of them, i can't image me moving only consist of me and hubby. I will faintz on the spot.
Really appreciated their help so much.

After settle down abit, unpacking, mama & papa brought me to supermarket to purchase some house use stuffs, like rice, sugar, detergents, washing powder as such. And mama paid for all the stuffs which costs nearly $100/. Actually mama also bought 2 fans for me, 1 at the price of $56.00/.

Back home, Papa treated us for dinner. He ordered crabs, claypot fish, veg...etc, and we had a good dinner and thank papa for that too.

They went back about 9plus, den we continued unpacking until 11plus, I also dunno what happend, I started to miss my mama. You know the feeling, I havent start to stay there yet, and its only 1hr I never see my mama. My hubby for a moment thought I was crazy but I'm not. I just dunno why I miss my mama so much. Spoken to my buddy and she said this is normal. Heez.. ya.. I think I'm really a "Big Girl" who can't live without mama.

So after yesterday, I realised mama & papa loves me, and I love them too.
I also dunno why I want to talk back to her, dun obey her and I think its not too late to regret.
Mama, I really love you.

Good boy‎

2007-05-04T09:23:00.000+08:00
One day, there was a catastrophic event that caused all living creatures on Earth to die. To sort things out, everyone went to heaven.

God came and said, "I want the men to form twol ines. One line for the men who ruled their women on Earth and the other line for the men who were ruled by their women. Also, I want all the women togo with St.Peter."

With that said and done, the next time God looked, the women were gone and there were two lines. The line of men who were ruled by their women was 1,000 miles long,and in the line of men who ruled their women, there was only one man.

God became angry and said, "You men should be ashamed ofyourselves. I created you inmy image and you were all whipped by your mates.Look at the only one of my sons who stood up and made me proud. Learn from him!

Tell them, my son, how did you manage to be the only one in this line?" The man replied, "I don't know, my wife told me to stand here"